There was a Friday workshop for the tutors on November 6th, 2020 on the topic of “Psychosocial Theory/Model of Personality” which was facilitated by our Education Coordinator, Belina Modest.  Please have a look at the report below!


The facilitator of the session, Belina, began the workshop by welcoming all the attendees, and then she introduced the topic, “Psychosocial Theory/Model of Personality” which was a continuation of a previous workshop called “Psychology of Children.”  Belina provided questions to tutors to discuss in groups and then share their ideas on the topic such as “What factors affect a child’s growth?” and “What do tutors need to know about children’s development?”

When the groups came back together, Belina summarized what the tutors had discussed.  She then presented a bit about the last session on Psychosexual/Psychoanalytic Theory by Sigmund Freud.  Belina continued to explain about psychosocial theory by Erik Erikson who believed that a child’s behavior is shaped by the environment or the society where he/she is being raised up.

Erikson maintained that personality develops in a predetermined order through eight stages of psychosocial development, from infancy to adulthood.  During each stage, the person experiences a psychosocial crisis which could have a positive or negative outcome for personality development. 

For Erikson, these crises are of a psychosocial nature because they involve the psychological needs of the individual (i.e., psycho) conflicting with the needs of society (i.e., social).

According to the theory, successful completion of each stage results in a healthy personality and the acquisition of basic virtues.  Basic virtues are characteristic strengths which the ego can use to resolve subsequent crises.

Failure to successfully complete a stage can result in a reduced ability to complete further stages and therefore a more unhealthy personality and sense of self.  These stages, however, can be resolved successfully at a later time.

Erikson’s eight stages of children’s development are Trust vs. Mistrust, Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt, Initiative vs. Guilt, Industry vs. Inferiority, Identity vs. Role Confusion, Intimacy vs. Isolation, Generativity vs. Stagnation, and Ego Integrity vs. Despair.  The advantages and impacts of each stage are explained below:

  1. Trust vs. Mistrust

Trust vs. Mistrust is the first stage in Erik Erikson’s theory of psychosocial development.  This stage begins at birth and continues to approximately 18 months of age.  During this stage, the infant is uncertain about the world in which he/she lives, and looks to his/her primary caregiver for stability and consistency of care.

If the care the infant receives is consistent, predictable, and reliable, he/she will develop a sense of trust which he/she will carry with him/her to other relationships, and he/she will be able to feel secure even when threatened.

If the care has been inconsistent, unpredictable, and unreliable, then the infant may develop a sense of mistrust, suspicion, and anxiety.  In this situation, the infant will not have confidence in the world around him/her or in his/her abilities to influence events.

Success in this stage will lead to the virtue of hope.  By developing a sense of trust, the infant can have hope that as new crises arise, there is a real possibility that other people will be there as a source of support.  Failing to acquire the virtue of hope will lead to the development of fear.  The infant will carry the basic sense of mistrust with him/her to other relationships.  It may result in anxiety, heightened insecurities, and an overall feeling of mistrust in the world around him/her.

  1. Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt

Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt is the second stage of Erik Erikson’s stages of psychosocial development.  This stage occurs between the ages of 18 months to approximately 3 years.  According to Erikson, children at this stage are focused on developing a sense of personal control over physical skills and a sense of independence.

The child is developing physically and becoming more mobile, discovering that he or she has many skills and abilities, such as putting on clothes and shoes, playing with toys, etc.  Such skills illustrate the child’s growing sense of independence and autonomy.

During this stage, children begin to assert their independence; for example, by walking away from their mothers, picking which toys to play with, and making choices about what they like to wear, to eat, etc.

Erikson states that it is critical that parents allow their children to explore the limits of their abilities within an encouraging environment which is tolerant of failure.

For example, rather than put on a child’s clothes, a supportive parent should have the patience to allow the child to try until they succeed or ask for assistance.  So, the parents need to encourage the child to become more independent while at the same time protecting the child so that constant failure is avoided.

Thus, a delicate balance is required from parents.  They must try not to do everything for the child, but if the child fails at a particular task, they must not criticize the child for failures and accidents (particularly when toilet training).  The aim has to be “self control without a loss of self-esteem” (Gross, 1992).

Success in this stage will lead to the virtue of will.  If children in this stage are encouraged and supported in their increased independence, they become more confident and secure in their own ability to survive in the world.

If children are criticized, overly controlled, or not given the opportunity to assert themselves, they begin to feel inadequate in their ability to survive, and may then become overly dependent upon others, lack self-esteem, and feel a sense of shame or doubt in their abilities.

  1. Initiative vs. Guilt

Initiative vs. Guilt is the third stage of Erik Erikson’s theory of psychosocial development.  During this stage, children assert themselves more frequently through directing play and other social interaction.

These are particularly lively, rapid-developing years in a child’s life.  It is a “time of vigor of action and of behaviors that the parents may see as aggressive.” (Bee, 1992).

During this period, the primary feature involves the child regularly interacting with other children at school.  Central to this stage is play as it provides children with the opportunity to explore their interpersonal skills through initiating activities.

Children begin to plan activities, make up games, and initiate activities with others.  If given this opportunity, children develop a sense of initiative and feel secure in their ability to lead others and make decisions.

Conversely, if this tendency is squelched, either through criticism or control, children develop a sense of guilt.  The child will often overstep the mark in his forcefulness, and the danger is that the parents will tend to punish the child and restrict his initiatives too much.

It is at this stage that the child will begin to ask many questions as his thirst for knowledge grows.  If the parents treat the child’s questions as trivial, a nuisance, or embarrassing or other aspects of his/her behavior as threatening then the child may have feelings of guilt for “being a nuisance.”

Too much guilt can make the child slow to interact with others and may inhibit his/her creativity.  Some guilt is, of course, necessary; otherwise the child would not know how to exercise self-control or have a conscience.

A healthy balance between initiative and guilt is important.  Success in this stage will lead to the virtue of purpose, while failure results in a sense of guilt.

  1. Industry vs. Inferiority

Erikson’s fourth psychosocial crisis, involving Industry (competence) vs. Inferiority occurs during childhood between the ages of 5 and 12 years.

Children at this stage will be learning to read and write, to do sums, to do things on their own.  Teachers begin to take an important role in the child’s life as they teach the child specific skills.

It is at this stage that the child’s peer group will gain greater significance and will become a major source of the child’s self-esteem.  The child now feels the need to win approval by demonstrating specific competencies that are valued by society and begin to develop a sense of pride in their accomplishments.

If children are encouraged and reinforced for their initiative, they begin to feel industrious (competent) and confident in their ability to achieve goals.  If this initiative is not encouraged, if it is restricted by parents or teachers, then the child begins to feel inferior, doubting his/her own abilities and therefore may not reach his or her potential.

If the child cannot develop the specific skill that he/she thinks society is demanding (e.g., being athletic) then he/she may develop a sense of Inferiority.

Some failure may be necessary so that the child can develop some modesty.  Again, a balance between competence and modesty is necessary.  Success in this stage will lead to the virtue of competence.

  1. Identity vs. Role Confusion

The fifth stage of Erik Erikson’s theory of psychosocial development is Identity vs. Role Confusion, and it occurs during adolescence, from about 12-18 years.  During this stage, adolescents search for a sense of self and personal identity, through an intense exploration of personal values, beliefs, and goals.

During adolescence, the transition from childhood to adulthood is most important.  Children are becoming more independent, and begin to look at the future in terms of career, relationships, families, housing, etc.  The individual wants to belong to a society and fit in.

This is a major stage of development where the child has to learn the roles he/she will occupy as an adult.  It is during this stage that the adolescent will re-examine his/her identity and try to find out exactly who he or she is.  Erikson suggests that two identities are involved: the sexual and the occupational.

What should happen at the end of this stage is “a reintegrated sense of self, of what one wants to do or be, and of one’s appropriate sex role” (Bee, 1992).  During this stage, the body image of the adolescent changes.

During this period, children explore possibilities and begin to form their own identities based upon the outcome of their explorations.  Failure to establish a sense of identity within society (“I don’t know what I want to be when I grow up”) can lead to role confusion.  Role confusion involves the individual not being sure about him/herself or his/her place in society.

In response to role confusion or “identity crisis”, an adolescent may begin to experiment with different lifestyles (e.g., work, education, or political activities).

Also, pressuring someone into a certain identity can result in rebellion in the form of establishing a negative identity, and in addition to this, a feeling of unhappiness.

Finally, Erikson claims that the adolescent may feel uncomfortable about his/her body for a while until he/she can adapt and “grow into” the changes.  Success in this stage will lead to the virtue of fidelity.  Fidelity involves being able to commit oneself to others on the basis of accepting others, even when there may be ideological differences.

  1. Intimacy vs. Isolation

Intimacy vs. Isolation is the sixth stage of Erik Erikson’s theory of psychosocial development.  This stage takes place during young adulthood between the ages of approximately 18 to 40 years.  During this stage, the major conflict centers on forming intimate, loving relationships with other people.

During this stage, we begin to share ourselves more intimately with others.  We explore relationships leading toward longer-term commitments with someone other than a family member.

Successful completion of this stage can result in happy relationships and a sense of commitment, safety, and care within a relationship.

Avoiding intimacy or fearing commitment and relationships can lead to isolation, loneliness, and sometimes depression.  Success in this stage will lead to the virtue of love.

  1. Generativity vs. Stagnation

Generativity vs. Stagnation is the seventh of the eight stages of Erik Erikson’s theory of psychosocial development.  This stage takes place during middle adulthood (ages 40 to 65 years).

Psychologically, generativity refers to “making your mark” on the world through creating or nurturing things that will outlast an individual.  During middle age, individuals experience a need to create or nurture things that will outlast them, often having mentees or creating positive changes that will benefit other people.

We give back to society through raising our children, being productive at work, and becoming involved in community activities and organizations.  Through generativity, we develop a sense of being a part of the bigger picture.

Success leads to feelings of usefulness and accomplishment while failure results in shallow involvement in the world.

By failing to find a way to contribute, we become stagnant and feel unproductive.  These individuals may feel disconnected or uninvolved with their community and with society as a whole.  Success in this stage will lead to the virtue of care.

  1. Ego Integrity vs. Despair

Ego Integrity vs. Despair is the eighth and final stage of Erik Erikson’s stage theory of psychosocial development.  This stage begins at approximately age 65 and ends at death.  It is during this time that we contemplate our accomplishments and can develop integrity if we see ourselves as leading a successful life.

Individuals who reflect on their lives and regret not achieving their goals will experience feelings of bitterness and despair.

As we grow older (65+ years) and become senior citizens, we tend to slow down our productivity and explore life as retired persons.

Erik Erikson believed if we see our lives as unproductive, feel guilt about our past, or feel that we did not accomplish our life goals, we become dissatisfied with life and develop despair, often leading to depression and hopelessness.

However, success in this stage will lead to the virtue of wisdom.  Wisdom enables a person to look back on his/her life with a sense of closure and completeness, and also accept death without fear.  Wise people are not characterized by a continuous state of ego integrity, but they experience both ego integrity and despair.  Thus, late life is characterized by both integrity and despair as alternating states that need to be balanced.

Once Belina had explained all eight stages of Erik Erikson’s theory of psychosocial development, she winded up the session by asking the tutors if they had comments or suggestions about the session.  Then Mr. Augustino put on an audio recording for tutors to listen to regarding different parenting styles and how these styles corresponded to Erikson’s stages.

At the very end of the session, Belina and Augustino put forth the following recommendations for the tutors for future workshops like this one: 1) Tutors should be more serious in listening to the session and putting in practice what they are being taught so that the facilitator does not repeat what she has already taught.  2) Psychology of Children is an interesting topic, so there will be further continuation of this topic.


McLeod, S. A. (2018). Erik Erikson’s Stages of Psychosocial Development. Simply Psychology.

Bee, H. L. (1992). The Developing Child. London: HarperCollins.

Erikson, E. H. (1950). Childhood and Society. New York: Norton.

Erickson, E. H. (1958). Young Man Luther: A Study in Psychoanalysis and History. New York: Norton.

Erikson, E. H. (1963). Youth: Change and Challenge. New York: Basic Books.